We’re all about the quest for more followers, more likes, more shares, more views, and more comments these days. It feels good when more people respond to your art because, as I’ve said for too long to remember, art is a form of communication. It’s the means you use to share your ideas … your soul … with the world.
You can say your art is a form of self-expression and you might be right. To an extent. But that self-expression isn’t meaningful until other people respond. Until they comment, share, and start a dialogue with you about it.
That communication, as I’ve also said, completes the work. Yes, I know that you think the work is complete after you sign it, but it feels incomplete until it’s shared with others. Until the circle of artist to artwork to audience and back to artist is closed.
When you put the work out there and don’t get the appropriate number of expected likes or comments, you are unfulfilled. And that sucks. It’s not fair. It’s not fair that Mark Zuckerberg decides who can see your art. It’s not fair to the work and not fair to you that your art has to perform with such high expectations in a digital atmosphere over which you have little control.
What choice do you have? We all feel beholden to the social media algorithms for our success. But are we really? I believe we are taking huge risks by relying on mass communication to complete the circle of communication. To complete the work.
We know for a fact that art must be experienced in person in order to be fully appreciated. So why do we insist on validation from social media giants?
I want to talk about what really works for moving the needle with your art. It’s a secret shared by my highest level clients, only it’s not such a secret.
It’s personal relationships that make the biggest difference.
Communicating with a single person rather than broadcasting: one to one rather than one to many. These are the kinds of relationships that show people you care. That they are individuals rather than simply another name on your list.
They are the relationships that matter the most when you decide that you want to play big in the art arena.
We all know what it feels like to get lost in a crowd. To be another face in the room, butt in the chair, or, as they say in the hospitality industry, head in the bed. It may feel good to belong, but it’s impossible to get personal attention. To make a connection with those in charge.
Years ago, I interviewed Steve Cranford for a membership program I was leading. He’s the creative chairman and CEO of the New York agency WHISPER. When I asked him why in the world a marketing firm would be called WHISPER instead of SHOUT, he replied: “The most important information you can share is whispered one-on-one.”
That's profound. So simple and so true.
The most important information you can share is whispered one-on-one.
It’s not posted to your social feed for thousands of people to see. It’s not even sent to your email list, as important as that may be.
When you take out an ad or post to your blog and social media sites—even when you send an email to your list—you are broadcasting. You're talking to hundreds or perhaps thousands of people who might see your message.
Because of this public forum, the language is less personal than you would use in a private conversation. Everyone on the receiving end knows you're talking to a boat load of people simultaneously.
There's nothing wrong with this 1-to-many strategy, but when you want results, when you want to be truly certain that you’re connecting and closing the circle that completes the work, I encourage you to whisper—to communicate with a single person.
Anatomy of a Whisper
Emailing hundreds of people and posting to millions via social media should absolutely be part of your marketing, but they shouldn’t be the only methods you rely on.
I’ve repeatedly seen clients improve their success rates, whatever that meant to them at the time, by communicating 1-to-1 with individuals rather than, or in addition to, broadcasting.
People like to be treated as individuals. We like to know that you care about us and want a personal relationship.
Broadcasts—whether through email or social media—will never equal the power of personal attention. Besides, personalizing the relationship you have with buyers, students, and collectors will make you feel better because it feels more authentic. It’s not a place for sales speak, but for showing you care about another human.
Four Ways to Connect on a More Personal Level
If you are worried about bothering people on your list or if marketing has become a drag for you, it’s time to get more personal. It’s time to whisper. Here are 4 ways to do that.
1. Add personal messages.
Increase the number private emails, texts, and direct messages in your marketing mix.
Private emails are those that are sent from the personal email program on your computer and reach only the 1 recipient for whom they’re intended. There are no email marketing platforms involved.
Direct messages use the inbox for a social media platform, and are far more likely to be noticed and appreciated than a thumbs up or one comment among a slew of others. These can be typed, but it’s also fun to use audio clips by just clicking record in Facebook or Instagram.
I don’t think I need to tell you what a text message is.
Using any of these formats, you might invite individuals to your event, thank them for following you, tell them you were just thinking of them, wish them happy birthday, ask how they’re liking their purchase, or share information that you think will be useful or otherwise appreciated.
2. Send real mail.
You know that I love real mail: cards, letters, small gifts, and postcards. If you want to know my deeper thoughts about using real mail to delight, go back to episode number 47.
Still, some real mail, like postcards and pre-printed holiday cards, can feel almost as impersonal as mass email. Try sending postcards one at a time rather than in bulk mail. This ritual helps you focus on and appreciate individual recipients.
Writing by hand on any piece of real mail makes it more personal, and anything handwritten will also receive more attention than mail that is mass printed.
3. Pick up the phone.
This is a tough one, and I get it. Why are we so averse to dialing a phone number these days? Especially when we know a phone call can be a shortcut to the answer we need or connection we seek?
Next time you receive an email inquiry about your art, I challenge you to pick up the phone and call instead of responding with an email. Your email looks like everything else in an inbox, but your voice—full of warmth and gratitude—is uniquely your own.
4. Make short videos.
It’s incredible that we have technology at our fingertips that makes it easy (and cheap) for us to make and send videos. Let’s use it more frequently.
You’ll stand apart when you send a personal video to someone who:
- Is having a rough time.
- Can’t understand a certain aspect of your online course.
- Has a big presentation, performance, or exhibition.
- Is celebrating a birthday or anniversary.
- Did something special for you.
You might also send a video to your collector with an update on their commission. Or one that shows you packing or shipping their artwork.
It Takes More Time
Not sure where to begin? The most powerful attention you can give someone is to stop and listen rather than always being the message deliverer. Pay attention to what’s going on in their world.
What’s important to your collector? What struggles are your students having? How can you be of service? How can you make them feel special?
Clearly, communicating 1-to-1 rather than 1-to-many takes more time—a valuable commodity that most of us don’t have.
I realize this is a problem. I wish I had more time to interact with followers, students, and subscribers on a more personal level.
Again, I’m not suggesting you ditch the 1-to-many strategies of email marketing and social media posting, but I am encouraging you to stop relying on broadcasting for all of your marketing.
These 3 things are for certain.
- You’ll build a list of higher quality contacts by personalizing your communication.
- You can’t rely on social media algorithms to deliver your message.
- You’ll feel better about your marketing when you value individual relationships, and, as a result, and perhaps most importantly, you’ll find increased meaning in the work because the conversations are elevated.
Isn't that last point what it's all about? If art is a form of communication, the ultimate goal is to make those strong connections. Enjoy the journey.
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This post was originally published February 14, 2018, and has been significantly updated along with a podcast. Original comments have been left intact.